Why is it that some people have a closed heart? Or worse…a cold heart? I just went through open heart surgery. It always makes you come to terms with who you are when you are facing eternity. You think about what you have done (or not done) with your life.
WouldI change anything in the past if I could? Of course I would! Whowouldn’t?
ThingsI have learned in this process:
- Don’t take your health for granted. Bad habits will always catch up with you.
- Tell people you love them while you can. Tomorrow may never come.
- Make things right with God and people. Don’t go to bed mad.
- Don’t let the hardships and tragedies of life jade your heart. Keep an open heart to love God, yourself, and others.
- Don’t waste time. Every minute counts. This life is but a blink in eternity. Learn to relax, but don’t waste time.
- Expect the unexpected. Adapt, improvise, and move on.
Ipray you keep an open and healthy heart.
At some point in life we come face to face with the fact that life is not fair. The problem is, even though we know it isn’t, we expect it to be! This played out before our eyes recently on national TV with the now infamous non-call that cost the Saints the opportunity to win and go on to the Super Bowl. You could debate that they still could have won, but the fact remains that had the interference call been properly made, they could have run out the clock and won the game.
Here is what I hope come out of this lesson:
- I hope the Saints don’t lose heart from this travesty. They are a great team and will be contenders next year as well.
- I hope that the rules change in the NFL to allow a coach to contest a pass interference. Had this opportunity been in place, a replay would have obviously enforced a penalty against the Rams.
- I hope we all are prepared for life to throw us a curve ball. The good news is that curve balls can be hit. We can survive regardless of what challenges we face.
This is not to take anything away from the Rams and their victory. It was not their issue and they played a great game. It just took some of the satisfaction out of the equation with the way it played out. It would have been fun to see Brady vs. Brees in the Super Bowl (maybe next year if they don’t retire). Of course, I hope the Cowboys are there next year! So in that case…we may never know what could have been.